The reasons why many people are not able to regulate their discipline, which involves in these 3 traits cause you no self-discipline, that I will raise to discuss in the following text.
When we talk about discipline, we may think that there is much effort for people to accomplish, especially it would a huge effort toward self-discipline. Those efforts make people feel lost in adapting themselves to any discipline and getting rid of it.
In fact, the root causes of the failure on the discipline are not the effort or there are extraordinary characteristics that ordinary people cannot behave. It’s as simple as the simple habits that everyone can be adapted and followed to make their miracle of self-discipline. However, the 3 traits that ruin our self-discipline must be eliminated first then we can start our journey with the disciplines.
The Fear of Change
The first trait is fear of change, if you want to change or become better, you must first know how to change your way of thinking and behavior. But the fear of change will cause you to dare not to accept the change. You still can change it if you want, and you just imagine that it is like you need to get rid of all the bad habits. Then start the new and a better regular routine.
In fact, everyone’s strengths and abilities are not much different. The difference lies only in the personal thinking mode. If we analyze a question with successful people and failed people, the answers we actually get are very different. The reason for our failure is that we think that we are not as successful as others. Once your fear has been out then you can enjoy the discipline better.
Gossiping Other People’s Behind
In fact, this attitude stems from the habits and mentality of people in any country. If we like to only talk about this person, that person, the person that day, anyone or other people gossiping about us. Because people who say they are bad are definitely not good people. Therefore, we need to re-examine our habits and reorganize our way of thinking through multi-angle thinking.
Negative Mind, and Always Complain
Honestly, what kind of people do we like? People, who complain are always sad and blame themselves, or do people who like happiness bring happiness to others? Do we always complain, grieve, blame others, and think negatively? If so, we should change these behaviors, otherwise, we won’t be able to join them and don’t want to collaborate with others.
In our daily lives, no matter what we do to others, they will do the same to us. If we are proactive in life, only then we can live better. Let’s become successful people who can control almost every situation, rather than make a compliance every time. Your action will help you and you won’t complain or blame yourself all the time again.
Last but not least, I hope the above three points will help you to develop habits, mindset, and self-discipline for success in life.