At the first moment, a sign of new life come to my wife and I, there was a bit surprised and exited to us. Just about a month after our wedding, my wife is pregnant. There were few times of test by ourselves and finally we were sure that our new member coming. That was every new family can feel it, I think, “the happiness”. However, I have to start to think about how to prepare myself ‘be ready to be a father’.

I had it in my mind already even it was a bit faster to prepare and to hear about a new voice of my life. It seems a bit early to prepare but I still get listing some items for new birth baby down onto the paper. First, I think there was a few things, then I found that there are many things to do for the preparation. There are many things on the list, later I find out that some is very useful but some are not. That’s I experience and can feel.

Actually, there was very hard at the first few months to cope with pregnancy, and I have to always stand aside with my wife passing together at the time. We have to be very careful and follow all doctor advises through those months. We go to check every set and arrangement with doctor for both mother and child health. I find fun to talk with the baby inside his mother. Sometime, talk to him telling him what I am doing and telling him environment around. Sometime, sing songs for him even I am bad in singing. Sometime, reading a book for him. And sometime, at midnight or a bit earlier morning to bring him and his mother a meal.

At these last few months of his birth, every evening and weekend we walk very often down the street to some places wider square available for a long walk and have a good environment. The most often we go such the places as Olympic stadium, Riverside, and AEON Mall. After walking, we still find some place for eating a lot.

It is long for waiting, but it is faster like a time fly. Our new voice will be sounded on this early August. We have to do a well prepare for welcoming him to the world, and be ready to be parents, a father, and a mother soon. Likewise, go with the flow.