Learn to Overcome Your Impatience
For instance, it’s like learning to play music, learning a language, or learning something that we found difficult to learn at first. Learn other things. Likewise, if some businessmen didn’t see any profits at first, and they started thinking about throwing them away. Otherwise, there is no ensure on that 100% to get earned, some get returned to earn back in the first month, some earned in the three months, some earned in half a year, and some earned in another year, and they gave up. All of that, it needs a patience.
Sometimes we may not understand why we encounter such a small obstacle, so why should we give up so quickly? However, we could learn from this, and we can see that giving up so quickly may become regulation and a bad habit of failure. Therefore, we must have a long-term vision, use our vision to see further, and see the future of ourselves. For people who are accustomed to giving up or not daring to fight with the obstacle, we can remind ourselves in one sentence: “success is born from the struggle, people who patient to try their effort for that will succeed, and the one who always persevere, never persist the effort, and always give up and always fail.
Why is it so easy for most people to give up trying? According to Napoleon Hill, “the poor have two bad views mindset: (1). Always reject opportunities and (2). Always thinking about getting rich overnight. Although we have given him the opportunity now, they still refuse.
For example, did we experience anything like this when we try to explain such kind people as the above? If it succeeds, we go and tell people around us, such as friends and relatives, or someone with those mindsets, all our successful experiences, and try to encourage them to do that business. The first react from them will be the question that, can we assure them that they are really as successful as we are? Do we have followers? Maybe most of them will tell us that we can do it, but changing them is definitely not. That’s those people’s view.
Of course, to the point where they always want to get rich overnight, that is, when we explain the business to them, they will ask if the business can make money? We also answered that we can make money. They will ask again if it is easy to spell? If our answer is yes, it will be easy. The third question comes again, is it about to make a profit? When we answer as soon as possible, they will agree to do so. If we think about it if there is such a business that is easy to do and makes money fast, will it be our turn to do business? Before we do, there will be many people scrambling to do it, and it’s the consequence of what we get from the interaction with them.
This is why we must learn to sacrifice, why sacrifice? Because we sacrifice for our dreams, some people think they want to get rich, but they never come out or sacrifice to get the wealth they imagine. People live by their own hopes and desires. If we live our own lives, life has no meaning. The sacrifice here, I mean we know how we can eliminate or get rid of something may be important or not, but you can get it the most important things for your life.
In our daily life, if you want to get something, you must first learn to sacrifice, and if you want time, you must know how to sacrifice time first. How to give up money is to know how to invest, how to spend, how to use, and how to make money. Because we want to spend more time with our family, we also need to learn to take some time for our family by getting rid of other things instead.
In conclusion, if we make sacrifices for something, we can gain as much as we sow. Therefore, we dedicate seeds to planting and spend time and labor force on maintenance, watering, weeding, and insecticide. Finally, we will benefit from these sacrifices through our hard work. Indeed, in our lives, each of us must know how to sacrifice, spend energy or money, and we don’t rush for success, because Rome not built in a day, it’s nothing in the world is built from nothing, and without our efforts, there is no success.